"In some way, suffering ceases to be suffering at the moment it finds meaning, such as the meaning of sacrifice.” --Victor Frankl, "Man's Search for Meaning”
It’s the first and only time
I ever saw my late father cry.
Like many men of his generation,
the so-called “silent generation” my dad was not one for big emotions, or public
displays of feelings. But one night, when I was home on college break and both
of us shared the family room, I flipped through the TV channels and came upon
an old World War II movie, 1944’s “The Fighting Sullivans” and so we settled in
to watch.
And then we had our
hearts broken by that true wartime story.
The “Fighting Sullivans” were the Sullivan brothers, five siblings who hailed from Waterloo, Iowa. In January of 1942, George, Francis, Joseph, Madison and Albert, the sons of Thomas and Aleta Sullivan, signed up or re-upped, to serve in the United States Navy. It was a little more than a month after the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor. Patriotism and the commitment to serve your country had captured the hearts of the nation.
The Sullivans enlisted with one stipulation: that they be allowed to serve together on the same ship. The Navy had a policy against such groupings, but it was not always enforced and so they were assigned to the U.S.S. Juneau, a light cruiser. On November 13, 1942, during the battle of Guadalcanal in the South Pacific, the Juneau was struck by two enemy torpedoes, exploding, and then sinking the ship.
Six-hundred and eighty-seven men died. Ten survived. The Sullivan brothers all perished.
In my home I have several framed original World War II propaganda posters, which hung from 1941 to 1945, in factories, town halls, post offices, train stations and other public settings. The United States government used those placards to try and inspire the citizenry to do their part and support the war effort.
The poster I most cherish depicts those five brothers, posing shoulder to shoulder, dressed in Navy garb, smiling the smiles of optimistic youth. Above them is a line of blue stars, symbols that families hung in their windows to denote that members of a household had died in battle. Underneath the photo is this challenge: “…the five Sullivan brothers, ‘missing in action’ off the Solomons” and then in bold print below, “THEY DID THEIR PART.”
They did their part.
That poster reminds me that there have been times in
our nation’s history when the greatest of sacrifices was asked of American
citizens, like the Sullivans. There was a time when millions of Americans laid
aside their own wants and needs, gave up the normalcy of everyday life, to
serve. There was a time when our nation was led by a President, who in
word and deed, called forth the best in people to do one’s part. Not just as
soldiers, but as civilians working in wartime factories. Participating in
wartime drives to collect scrap metal. Growing a victory garden. Buying a war
bond.
So, so many actually did their part.
Which makes me wonder…in 2025, could we do our part in such a national effort? Do we as Americans still have the civic DNA to embrace the responsibilities each of us have as citizens? Could we sacrifice to defend the values we’ve claimed as American, what many of us still believe in as Americans?
Freedom. Duty. Honor. Service. Courage. Selflessness
I so want to believe there is still the spirit of the Sullivans in our nation, the spirit of all who served and sacrificed before. Yes, we as a nation sometimes fail to live up to the highest of our national aspirations. We fall short of our ideals. But we still must have those aspirational values and virtues to stretch towards.
My faith certainly teaches me that sacrifice and service are at the heart of any life we dare to call a “good life.” As Jesus said, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. (John 15:13)
And yet, are we more focused on what we can get as citizens or what we can give in support of the greater good? Are we kind towards Americans of all ideologies, colors and faiths or do we see some as “not really American?” Are we generous in our welcome to native and foreigners alike, or do we wish to just shut the door? Are we led by politicians who respect the military? Or are we led by some who mock military service while never even having served themselves?
My God: I pray, and I hope on this Memorial Day weekend and beyond, that we can still do our part, each of us, collectively too. Do our part: as neighbors, Americans, and heirs of this land we call home.
They did their part. Now we must learn again how to do the same.
(The views expressed in this essay do not necessarily reflect the views of the people and church I serve nor the United Church of Christ.)
The Reverend John F. Hudson is Senior Pastor of the Pilgrim Church, United Church of Christ, in Sherborn, Massachusetts (pilgrimsherborn.org). He blogs at sherbornpastor.blogspot.com and is a resident scholar at the Collegeville Institute at Saint John’s University in Collegeville, Minnesota. For twenty-five years he was a columnist whose essays appeared in newspapers throughout Massachusetts and Rhode Island. He has served churches in New England since 1989. For comments, please be in touch: pastorjohn@pilgrimsherborn.org.